Chapter 204
Tang Nian said this because he wanted the old lady to think clearly whether she wanted a daughter or a son. As for the sterilization, it was all a lie.
He was busy as a top when he first came, how could he have time to go? He didn't need to go.
The old lady was stunned. She never thought her son could do such a thing. She was so angry that she slapped Tang Nian.
"How could you do this! Are you worthy of your ancestors?"
He actually got sterilized. It seems he is determined not to have a second child!"If you don't have a son, people will laugh at you behind your back!"
People will think he is incompetent and useless!
"I don't care." Tang Nian sighed, knowing that he might have angered the old lady just now, so he pulled her to sit in the lobby."Mom, my daughter is already a mother, and I have never thought about having another child. It's not that Cuihua disagreed all these years, but that I didn't want to. I had a sterilization back then, but I didn't tell you because I was afraid you would scold me."
Of course not. The old lady had to know that if she was the first to disagree, how could her son be sterilized!
"Since you know I will scold you, why do you still do this? You know how much I want to have a grandson."
In their village, if you don't have a grandson, you will be laughed at and said that your family has no descendants. For so many years, their family has been talked about behind their backs. She doesn't believe that her son doesn't know about this.
"I am already very happy to have Linlin. What others say is their business. They have their mouths on their faces and you can never stop them from saying anything. Now they say they don’t have a son. If they had one, they could say something else. It is impossible not to have gossip and rumors."
As long as there are people, there will be gossip, right?
"Alas, you are just making up excuses. Who will take care of you when you are old? Who will take care of you and see you off to the grave? Who will break the pot for you when you die? Who will burn paper money for you in the future? How will you spend money if you have no money in the underworld?"
Although it is a little inappropriate to discuss these issues when her son is not dead yet, these are realities. She is still worried that her son will suffer in the future!
"Do you want to be a lonely ghost in the future? What will you do when you are old? Your daughter has her own home. Your husband’s family will not allow your daughter to come back to take care of you, nor will they allow your daughter to spend money on you."
The old lady has already told her son earnestly. This is really the reality, just like she would not allow Cuihua to take things from home to subsidize her parents' home. Their family is not doing well, why should they take care of others? It is the son's job to support his parents, and similarly everything in the house belongs to the son.
In fact, in the beginning, the family property in the countryside was left to the son, not because of the preference for boys over girls, but because the son had to provide for his parents in their old age, and those things were left to his son by his parents. Daughters do not need to provide for their parents in their old age, and their husband's family does not allow it.
""Mom, are you talking to me, or are you reminding yourself that Tang Xue will never spend money on you? Or are you using this reason to convince yourself?"
The old lady really didn't know what to say.
"I'm telling the truth, I'm doing this for your own good"
"I know.
"Tang Nian still looked at the old man in front of him seriously.
Indeed, no matter what, no matter how badly this old man treats his daughter-in-law and granddaughter, he is good to his own son.
"Mom, I know you are good to me, and I also want to be good to my children and my family.
What do you think about when I am old? Don't worry, my daughter will definitely take care of me.
If she doesn't take care of me, it doesn't matter.
I will choose to ask her to give money.
As for the problem after I die.
Mom, I'm dead.
It really doesn't matter what she does to me.
I don't know.
Funerals are for the living to see. What happens when you are alive is the most important."
Even if it is grand, even if those people cry sadly, even if there is really a son who smashes the pot, what's the matter? Can the dead know?
""Mom, no matter what, there is no room for change now. You really only have one granddaughter. This is my only daughter."
The old lady finally realized, yes! There is no other way now, it has been done, and she can only accept it.
"I understand."The old lady closed her eyes,"I need some time to accept this. I will go to the hospital tomorrow. Is that money enough? If not, I still have some money."
Tang Nian!!!!
Tang Nian couldn't believe that his old lady still had money. But if you think about it, you can't put all your eggs in one basket, and the old lady's money will definitely not be in only one place.
"What's that expression on your face? Do you find it unbelievable, or do you think you are a really bad-hearted mother? To tell you the truth, if you hadn't told me that you only had this one daughter in your life, I wouldn't have taken out the money. I was still thinking that one day you would give me a grandson. I even thought about asking you to divorce if this woman can't give birth, and then find another woman. I don't believe that you can't give me a grandson."
The old lady sighed deeply, and looked very lost, as if she had lost something very important, and she couldn't cheer up all of a sudden."I didn't expect you to cut off the source of my money. Since I only have one granddaughter, who can I leave the money to?"
Tang Nian was stunned, really stunned. The old lady really favored boys over girls, but the old lady really loved her son.
"No, I still have money here. Also, don’t give money to my sister anymore, and don’t give her things from home anymore, because she is an ungrateful person.
The old lady didn’t say anything. After all, she was her daughter, and she still didn’t quite believe it. She didn’t believe her daughter would be so heartless, and she didn’t believe her daughter would really be so excessive to her brother.
"Don't say that, kid. Your sister is also suffering. Maybe she has her own difficulties. Your sister has a big family and a mother-in-law. If she really doesn't care about anything and gives it to you, will her mother-in-law say anything to her?"
"Mom, you are very considerate of Tang Xue. Since you understand everything, why didn't you have the slightest consideration for my daughter at that time? I know that I am useless as a father and cannot give my daughter a good life. But I still can't help but compare the difference between your treatment of your daughter and your granddaughter.
Mom, I haven't slept for two days. I'm going to lie down for a while. I'll go to the hospital after I wake up. You take good care of yourself at home."Tang Nian went back after he finished speaking, because he felt sad. It's not that he didn't understand some things, but they were meaningless when compared.