Chapter 91 Stay with me for a while
Chapter 91 Stay with me for a while
When dealing with a shrew, many people say that the only way is to hide from her. A dog can bite a person, but the person can never bite the dog back. Such a person will get into trouble sooner or later. All he has to do is watch from the side.
This is both right and wrong.
You are right because it is really not worth getting angry and arguing with such a person, and you may not necessarily win the argument, because a shrew's expertise is quarreling and throwing tantrums. As long as you start arguing with her, she can drag you to the same level as her, and then defeat you with her rich experience in throwing tantrums.
Don't use your own interests to interfere with other people's majors.
Moreover, such shrews often have a bad ending. Either they will be beaten up by a big brother with a bad temper, or they will be hated by everyone and live alone until the end of their lives.
It’s not right, there’s actually only one reason.
Tired of ah.
Most people don't actually want to scold the shrew, but they can't win the scolding, so they can only use the above-mentioned dog bites man theory to comfort themselves, which is essentially a kind of Ah Q spirit.
I feel depressed when I am scolded, and I feel even more depressed when I can't win the argument and then get scolded again.
In fact, if you master the method, it is not that difficult to win by scolding a shrew.
First of all, we must make it clear that it is useless to talk about manners and qualities when dealing with a shrew.
Secondly, you have to find the right method. As long as you use the right method, there is no shrew that cannot be subdued.
The first move is to change the situation. For example, if she accuses you of hitting her, you can accuse her of stealing your wallet and give her a taste of her own medicine.
The second trick is to sneak in. This doesn't work on everyone. The other party must have a weak spot. For example, if the other party's children hold a public office with no real power, then you can call the other party's children's unit to complain. Within half an hour, her son will call her and ask her to leave.
The third trick is to be strong without desires. Most shrews throw tantrums for the sake of interests, even if they throw tantrums towards their husbands or in-laws, it is also for the sake of interests.
If the other party does this at this time, you can make a fake IOU with her and tell her that you don’t have the money, but you still have hundreds of thousands of foreign debts. Otherwise, why don’t you get some back from your mother’s home?
The fourth move is more poisonous, it is called "rubbing salt into the wound".
A middle-aged shrew? Actually, her pain points are easy to find.
Most shrews, due to their personalities, will cause family discord and marital discord. When they reach middle age, they are old and ugly, and they are afraid that their husbands will cheat on them. They are also in poor health and worry about getting sick or having some underlying diseases. They have no money, or at least no ability to make money. They are full of a sense of crisis about the future, and they are afraid that their best friend, who has always been worse off than them, is now living a better life than them.
These are actually pain points.
Just criticize these pain points. The more it hits the heart, the better the effect.
This is also the method Fang Yu used just now.
Fang Yuke doesn't care about the saying "a good man doesn't fight with a woman" or the gentlemanly manners. If you scold me, I will scold you. If you fight, that's just self-defense.
Let me tell you, Article 20 is not just a decoration for some people.
If you don't curse back, your thoughts won't be clear.
When Fang Yu just entered college as a freshman, the monitor of his class was always finding fault with others. Many classmates couldn't stand it but were too embarrassed to say it to his face.
Fang Yu doesn't care about that. I don't care if you pick on others, but if you find fault with me, I will point at your nose and scold you.
Mother Tang was shaking with anger. She had already loosened her hand from Tang Yufei's hair and pointed at Fang Yu: "You, you..."
What are you saying? I haven't said anything bad to you yet. Just be content.
Otherwise, you will be paralyzed today.
Fang Yu rummaged through his coat pocket, then pressed down Tang's mother's finger and put it close to her ear: "You old woman, look me in the eyes, get out of here, or I'll kill you."
Mother Tang shuddered suddenly and subconsciously glanced at Fang Yu's eyes, only to find that those eyes seemed to have two constantly rotating whirlpools that kept sucking in her soul.
And beneath the vortex, there seems to be something extremely terrifying.
"Ahhhhhh! Ghost!" Tang's mother trembled all over, and the ground became wet in an instant.
Regardless of her embarrassment, Tang's mother picked up the bag that had just fallen on the ground, and without saying a word, ran downstairs in a hurry, peeing and pissing as she ran.
It's really a mess.
The first level spell of the enchantment school is the gaze of terror. The casting material requires a pair of horror glasses, but it can be replaced by magic crystals.
After casting, the recipient whose mental strength is not greater than that of the caster will not consciously look into the eyes of the other party, and will then feel extremely fearful and have only one thought in his mind: escape. This fear lasts for 1 minute. After 1 minute, the fear state gradually disappears, but the recipient will still feel fear about the situation just now and will not actively attack again.
If the recipient's mental strength exceeds that of the caster but does not exceed 1 unit, the spell will turn into a mental shock and the recipient will suffer a certain degree of mental damage.
If the recipient's mental strength exceeds the caster's by 2 units, the spell fails.
If we cast an identification spell on Tang's mother, her mental strength is estimated to be less than 8, so it is obviously impossible for her to fail.
"Ah~" Tang Yufei squatted on the ground and cried bitterly.
Fang Yu looked at the door key soaked in liquid with embarrassment. Seeing that Tang Yufei was crying with her head in her hands and not paying attention, he quietly used the water shaping technique to drive the liquid aside, and then used arcane tricks to clean the key before picking it up.
Alas, every family has its own problems.
Fang Yu opened the door with his key, put the crying Tang Yufei, who was already limp, on his shoulder, and helped her to the living room.
Don't talk nonsense about whether it's soft or big. We are doing this to help others.
The house that Tang Yufei and Zhang Ruoqi shared was similar in layout to the one that Fang Yu rented, and the living rooms were not very big.
After entering the door, Fang Yu took a look and breathed a sigh of relief.
Fortunately, it’s quite neat and it seems that these two girls are mentally normal.
Many girls rent houses that are much dirtier and messier than those rented by boys.
Experienced landlords are generally reluctant to rent to single women or to several women sharing a house.
If you're unlucky, you might rent the room to a girl who's too lazy to even sleep after she moves in.
There was garbage all over the floor, takeout boxes with leftovers were left there and were smelly and infested with bugs, cockroaches were crawling all over the floor, and it would cost an extra thousand dollars to hire a housekeeping representative to clean it up.
Fang Yu threw Tang Yufei onto the sofa and looked at the time. It was already half past ten, so he would miss this class.
Fang Yuxian sent a WeChat message to his counselor and asked for leave. He thought he would probably lose this year's scholarship. It was only October and he had already missed several classes. By June next year, he would probably have missed at least twenty classes. It would be useless even if he scored high in the exam.
After my mental strength was raised to level 12, my learning efficiency also improved a lot, and my GPA might even be higher than last year.
"Well, Yufei, calm down first. Your mother probably won't be back for a while. I'll leave first. The car is still stuck at the entrance of the building." Fang Yu looked at Tang Yufei's seductive figure on the sofa and smacked his lips regretfully.
What a pity, taking advantage of someone's misfortune is always inappropriate and goes against the moral principles.
But if there are flowers to be picked and you passively take the attack, you will definitely have to pick them.
No contradiction, no contradiction.
According to Fang Yu's understanding of the fearful gaze, Tang's mother is unlikely to come back in the short term, and it is more likely that she will directly book a flight back to Haipu.
Fang Yu turned around, unlocked the security door, and was about to go downstairs.
"Don't go!"
A warm and soft body suddenly hugged Fang Yu from behind.
"Don't leave yet...stay with me for a while..."
It will be officially on the shelves tomorrow.
Tomorrow morning, I have to take my child to BJ for medical treatment and will not be back until the evening at the earliest.
But even so, I will try my best to ensure at least two updates.
The first update tomorrow will be at 8pm.
(End of this chapter)