Chapter 168: No Admission, No Responsibility
Chapter 168: No Admission, No Responsibility (Emotions)
In a high-end restaurant, a man and a woman sat opposite each other, and the atmosphere between them was somewhat solemn.
"As friends?"
Wang Hao looked at Wan Qian in front of him and didn't ask "why" foolishly.
Although he didn't know why the other party said that, he remained calm with his rich experience and tried to control the rhythm in his own hands.
"There is no pure friendship between men and women. If there is, both of them must be stupid."
Facing Wang Hao's test, which seemed to be a confession but was not a confession, Wan Qian used chopsticks to pick up the food in the bowl. After a moment of silence, she finally looked at him and said with a smile:
"Yes, we are both not stupid, so I am smart and clear-headed. I know clearly what I want and I know clearly that I will not fall in love with you."
After hearing Wan Qian's words, Wang Hao suddenly understood.
The other party feels hesitant, regretful and uncertain after the intimate relationship progresses.
This situation is very common. Many girls may not refuse during the process of a relationship, but after calming down, they will suddenly regret it.
For example, when a boy suddenly confesses his love to them, or holds their hands, kisses them, or even goes to bed with them, they often say the classic phrase "Let's just be friends."
Many novice lovers often think that there is something wrong with them, but in fact this does not necessarily mean that the girl hates the boy. It is just because the complexity of women themselves makes them confused about what they really need, and then they become very entangled.
This is what many straight men call "acting"!
Wang Hao could even guess that if he continued to ask why the other party didn't like him at this time, even though they had already slept with each other last night, Wan Qian would definitely find all kinds of reasons and excuses.
For example, "You are a big director, and I am just a small actor, we are not a good match", "I came to Beijing just to perform in a drama, and I will return to Shanghai eventually", or "You are so popular, I am afraid that those young girls in the entertainment industry will rush into your arms".
That's what I said anyway.
When faced with this situation, most boys tend to get excited and swear and make all kinds of promises in an attempt to win back the girl and make her change her mind.
Of course, if they do that, they will be controlled, and sometimes if the degree of this kind of recovery is too extreme, it may even arouse the girl's disgust.
So when faced with Wan Qian's "Let's continue to be friends", Wang Hao just smiled, put down his chopsticks, looked at her, and asked softly:
"I'm sober too, so aren't we always friends?"
Yes, although Wang Hao's behavior towards her was a little intimate and they even slept together, Wang Hao never made any specific promises, nor did he confess his feelings to her, and he didn't even know her relatives and friends.
If you look at it this way, the two of them are really just close friends.
Wang Hao's words of retreating in order to advance made Wan Qian, who was originally a little nervous, feel extremely depressed. At the same time, shame and anger began to grow wildly in her heart like weeds in spring.
She originally thought that Wang Hao would keep her and persuade her. She even thought about it for a long time after getting up in the morning.
As a mature and calm girl, in her opinion, there is not much possibility between her and Wang Hao.
The other party is a director, a big one at that. Being in the entertainment industry, she has seen many young and outstanding men like Wang Hao having fun outside.
She thought that she was incapable of doing the kind of thing where she could just laugh off the ups and downs of life, and that she could not be a good wife and mother who took good care of the family.
So "being friends" may be the best option for them.
However, when Wang Hao said those words himself and did not pester her, she felt relieved but also felt empty for some reason.
Wang Hao looked at Wan Qian, who seemed a little dazed in front of him, and couldn't help but sigh in his heart.
Women! Women!
The words of our ancestors are correct, it is indeed "only women and villains are difficult to raise." Even a woman like Wan Qian, who is mature in thought and decisive and capable in her daily work, loses her composure and returns to her nature once she falls in love.
Yes, Wang Hao was sure that no matter what Wan Qian said, she had actually fallen in love with him, but she didn't know it, or she knew it but didn't admit it.
And while she was falling in love with herself, she was also afraid, and while she was afraid, she couldn't bear to let go.
If she decisively swore and made a promise, she would suspect that she made the decision without thinking and must have just said it verbally.
If I hesitate, she will feel that I am not sincere enough, but I am not decisive enough, and I don't love her thoroughly enough.
Anyway, proving yourself is the most difficult thing, and if you want to say "I love you" directly, you have to take your heart out and show it to the other person.
So Wang Hao could only resort to some tricks.
At this time, lowering your own frame of mind to adapt to the girl may be able to fool her temporarily, but it will inevitably make the intimacy between the two of you unequal, thus laying hidden dangers for the future.
Rather than getting into the dilemma of constantly proving yourself in the future, it is better to take advantage of the situation, back off, and cool down the intimate relationship between the two of you.
This cooling down does not mean that Wang Hao is a scumbag or a playboy, but it proves that Wang Hao respects women and does not regard women as his possessions or accessories just because he has slept with them and taken the first blood.
In addition, Wan Qian is not the kind of girl who is obsessed with love. She is more mature, so when it comes to love, it is more complicated. She is in a mixed state of rationality and sensibility. Now is the time when she is hesitant and confused.
Therefore, Wang Hao is not worried about getting into trouble when he cools down like this.
He has the confidence that he is good enough, and the emotional foundation between the two of them is still there.
When I take the initiative to cool down, Wan Qian will definitely develop a rebellious mentality. She will feel unwilling, regretful, and even throw a tantrum, but she will never cut off contact with me.
As long as they keep in touch, the relationship between the two sides can cool down and naturally warm up again.
This method of retreating in order to advance, as well as a calm and composed mentality, are precisely the core advantages that distinguish mature men like Wang Hao from those who are new to love.
Love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster it will slip through your fingers.
Sure enough, after being stunned for a moment, Wan Qian came to her senses and did not get angry because of Wang Hao's ruthless words.
She even rolled her eyes at Wang Hao after taking a bite of the dish, then laughed and scolded:
"Humph, I guessed right, you really are a bastard!"
Wang Hao knew that the other party was not angry, so he smiled and said:
"Yes, yes, I'm an asshole. Didn't you say this several times last night when you asked me to be gentler?"
"Bah, shameless!"
Wan Qian's face suddenly flushed and her legs subconsciously clamped together.
The two continued to eat and returned to their chatting and laughing state, as if the embarrassing topic just now had never happened.
However, if you observe carefully, you can still sense that the relationship between the two has become more intimate and harmonious.
So, sometimes, between men and women, not only do men not like to be responsible, but women also often do not like to be bound.
As for love, it is most interesting when two free hearts come together, isn't it?
(End of this chapter)