Chapter 355 I'm an emotional expert, share! All share! 20
Looking at Li Wei's distressed expression, Yunyan felt helpless sometimes.
Just like the tear incontinence people I met before, they didn’t want to cry, but they couldn’t control themselves.
She asked, "Actually, this may be related to your family of origin. If it's convenient, we can talk about family."
Li Wei hesitated for a while, then selectively talked about some things in his family.
"There are six people in my family. In addition to my parents, I have two older sisters and a younger brother."
"My name wasn't Li Wei before, but Li Pandi. I changed it after I became an adult."
Li Wei looked a little embarrassed.
"It's the kind of family that favors boys over girls in the eyes of outsiders. My mother gave birth to three daughters in a row, and I am the third child. Before my younger brother was born, my parents brainwashed us in various ways, saying that the family would be better if we had a younger brother."
"Later, we finally waited for my younger brother to be born, and my parents focused all their attention on him."
"My family's financial situation is not very good. I have good grades, so my two older sisters dropped out of school early to work and earn money so that I could study well."
Li Wei refused to say anything more, and Yunyan sighed.
"Your situation is actually due to a lack of love since childhood, especially fatherly love. You have not had deep contact with the opposite sex and lack the ability to get along with the opposite sex."
"So, your subconscious mind will simply and crudely attribute heterosexual relationships to the most primitive relationship between men and women."
Li Wei's eyes were dim.
"Is there any way? I can't control myself at all. I don't even want to go out to work now. Every time I talk to someone of the opposite sex, I want to fall in love with them."
Yunyan felt that this was difficult to change, because it was difficult for a person to change a habit after growing up for such a long time, let alone a deep-rooted subconscious state.
As the saying goes, it is difficult to change one's nature, but Yunyan still tried her best to give her advice.
"In this case, you can only change it slowly in your future life. You have to adapt to making ordinary friends with the opposite sex."
"If you make more friends, you won't be bothered by this matter all the time after a while."
Seeing Li Wei's confused look, Yun Yan simply spoke more directly.
"To put it simply, you need to be a time management master, chat with men more often, and make more male friends, but don't be ambiguous, otherwise you will easily become a sea king."
"There will definitely be obstacles at the beginning. Because of your family of origin, your personality is definitely not the kind of person with strong social skills, so you need to persist day by day."
"I suggest you make a plan for yourself and make friends in a planned way. You can set a small goal for yourself every week."
Li Wei nodded.
"Okay, I'll try my best."
Yunyan smiled.
"Actually, there's no need for you to worry about this right now. Let me tell you an emergency solution. If you can't help but like someone, then just imagine what it's like when he's constipated or has diarrhea."
After hearing this, Li Wei felt much better instantly. The sense of immersion was too strong. She felt like vomiting. What should she do?
Yunyan smiled and said, "Well, the most important thing is to keep yourself busy and focus on other things, and you will slowly get rid of it."
Li Wei also smiled.
"Okay, thank you, Teacher Zhang! By the way, I heard that you are also a master. I have one more thing I want to consult you about."
Yunyan nodded: "I do know a little bit, just ask!"
Li Wei said: "Yes, I used to have a crush on a senior, and now I haven't seen him for several years. Recently, I suddenly dreamed about him frequently."
"I heard someone say that if you often dream about someone, it's because that person misses you. Is this true?"
Yunyan thought for a moment, then shook her head.
“That’s not the case.”
"You've been dreaming about him so frequently recently because you two are destined to be together. You were supposed to have a story together, but due to various factors, your fate is shallow and you can't be together."
"But your fate is still there, so your dream is like a medium. Every time you dream of him, your fate will become weaker, until the fate is completely exhausted, and he will no longer appear in your dream."
"So, every time you meet in your dreams, you are repeating your farewell."
Li Wei was speechless for a moment. Is this really the case?
Yunyan saw that she was silent for a long time, and comforted her: "You don't have to worry, people's marriages are complicated, just let everything take its course."
Li Wei sighed. How can there be no regrets in life? She smiled in relief.
"Something will occur if it belongs to your life, if not, do not push it."
She stood up.
"Thank you, Teacher Zhang! I am deeply touched by what you said today. I will make a plan when I go back and change myself slowly."
Yunyan smiled faintly and watched her leave the office.
Some people use their childhood to heal their entire life, while others use their entire life to heal their childhood.
……
I don’t know who spread the news that Yunyan could tell fortunes, but for a long time afterwards, many people came to Yunyan to ask her for fortune-telling.
I can tolerate those who talk about calculating marriage fate, but there are still a few who want to calculate whether they can get rich quickly or whether they can get into their ideal university.
It's outrageous. Wealth and future academic qualifications cannot be accurately calculated. It also depends on personal efforts.
Some people can indeed get rich, but if they know they can get rich and just lie down, then their fate will change.
Yunyan sighed. She was clearly providing emotional counseling, so how could she go off track?
Fortunately, things gradually returned to normal.
Time passed slowly. Wang Jing, a wealthy woman Yunyan knew, won the lawsuit. She specially booked a bar and invited more than 20 male models to celebrate with Yunyan.
Yunyan refused again and again. She was not interested in male models and she didn't understand the happiness of rich women.
Wang Jing didn't force her. Everyone has their own lifestyle. Since Yunyan didn't like boys, she would introduce her to a few girls.
Yunyan discovered that Wang Jing always asked her to meet some young ladies on weekends. At first she thought she was just making friends.
But the more time went on, the more she realized something was wrong. Wang Jing acted like a matchmaker and often gave her ambiguous looks.
Yunyan felt that this world was really crazy. She had already been law-abiding, so why would someone take the initiative to give her a girlfriend?
Fortunately, a year passed quickly, Yunyan survived the time, and like a scumbag, left a substitute and walked away.
She is still a baby and doesn't want to get involved in any love affairs.
It’s so great to be single forever!