Chapter 432 How to choose a man for marriage!
"How can we live after this? All our money is gone." Yan Bugui seemed very distressed.
As long as the money exceeds Yan Bugui's standard, Yan Bugui will feel sorry for it and refuse it.
"This time I support my brother. I can use two more cans of food, steam thirty white flour buns, and buy two more bottles of wine!" Yan Jiefang suddenly began to support Yan Jiecheng.
"Me too!" Yan Jiekuang also supported.
"Why? We've spent too much money. How are we going to live in the future?" Yan Bugui was really anxious.
"Dad, don't say you can't make ends meet. It's just that your savings are low and you're heartbroken.
Don't tell this to outsiders. You may not feel ashamed, but we really can't afford to lose face.
The money we handed over was enough for our food expenses, so we wouldn’t starve to death. We are grown-ups now, so don’t use this to trick us anymore!
We knew it a long time ago, but we didn't tell you because we were giving you face. Why do you have to force me to say it?
Other people’s salaries are lower, they don’t save much, but they still live better than us, so they want us to live a better life.
We want to learn from them.
If you want to save money, just say it directly. Don't use lies that no one will believe.
You are an elementary school Chinese teacher after all. Although you are not one now, you still have some cultural foundation. Come up with another excuse next time!" Yan Jiekuang told the truth.
Yan Jiekuang was speaking, and Yan Jiecheng, Yan Jiefang and Yan Jiedi were all nodding.
Yan Bugui's face just felt awkward for a moment. Yan Bugui would never blush for such a thing.
"Jiefang, why do you support your brother's wedding banquet? Is it for face?" Yang Ruihua asked Yan Jiefang again.
“Face is only a small aspect. A meal for the head of a family costs five dollars.
I am just the second child in the family.
I am even more afraid that when I get married, I won’t even have a wedding banquet.
Or a vegetarian feast and everyone drinks boiled water.
You can do it to save money, just for our future life! "Yan Jiefang expressed his thoughts.
Yang Ruihua understood that the reason why he, the second oldest, spoke up for the eldest was not to ease the relationship between the brothers, but because he was worried about what would happen to him when he got married.
Yang Ruihua thought it through, but it was too late. He felt bitter, but could not say it. He could only grit his teeth and say,
"I see. Jie Cheng will give me two more cans of meat for cooking, and I will steam 20 more white flour buns. I will also buy two more bottles of wine. What else?"
"That won't work, we...
"Old Yan, stop talking. You only take one of the six cans of meat. We use two. If you want to eat it, don't say anything. If you don't want to eat it, wait until we eat five bottles, and then one bottle will be yours.
The same goes for the steamed buns made of white flour. As for the wine, I can afford the two dollars, so you don't have to worry about it.
Your theory, haha, is a failure! "The reason why Yang Ruihua looked down on Yan Bugui.
Yan Bugui said nothing more. He believed that he was absolutely fair to everyone in his work, and Yang Ruihua was also absolutely fair this time.
Yan Bugui doesn't need to spend a penny. It has nothing to do with him and he can't refute it.
Especially now, there are five people who need to do this and he is the only one.
invalid objection!
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The dishes for Yan Jiecheng’s wedding banquet have been decided, and the Yan family is safe.
In fact, the biggest problem in Yan Bugui's family is that they are too calculating.
Otherwise, with the Yan family's income, they could live a good life with thirty yuan a month.
The three brothers of the Yan family are really good at making money. They are all eight or nine years old, and before they are ten they know how to make money. They make money by picking up garbage. There are not many such kids like them in the compound.
However, the extra money was saved by Yan Bugui on the grounds of living.
Over time, the Yan family's income was not low, but their living conditions were worse than any other family in the compound. It was normal for the Yan brothers to have complaints.
Cao Dongfang would never care about Yan Bugui's family affairs.
It would be so nice if he had time to spend with his wife and children and Chen Xueru. Who is he, Yan Bugui!
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"Hey, Zhou Xiaobai, Qi Tianjiao, Mo Jinlan, you are here to see Xianxian, come in!" Cao Dongfang saw the three women outside the door.
"Cao Dongfang, just help Song Xianxian every day. You two are so bad that you will get what you deserve sooner or later!" Zhou Xiaobai said stubbornly.
"Thank you for praising Xianxian and me. When will we be able to have a good time together? Will you get married? Sure. I'll wait for you. Don't stand me up!" Cao Dongfang said with a smile.
Zhou Xiaobai, "Song Xianxian, you are living a good life, sitting on the bed, reading a book and eating fruit.
I let you and your man trick me into getting drunk that day, and I felt bad all day, but where are my clothes?
"I've finished drinking, and I feel so uncomfortable. It's all your fault, Song Xianxian!" Qi Tianjiao said.
Song Xianxian, "You three big traitors, why blame me? You were the first to betray, and you drank well a few days ago because of the clothes, not because of me.
I have prepared clothes and shoes for you. Take a look first. If you like them, try them on. I won't cheat you! "
"It's ready. Take it out there and let us take a look. Hurry up!" Zhou Xiaobai said hurriedly.
"Dongfang, where did you put the clothes and shoes you chose for them?"
"I'll get it in a minute, you guys eat the fruit first."
Thank you Dongfang. Mo Jinlan thanked him.
You're welcome!
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Qi Tianjiao, "Xianxian, you are lucky. Although Cao Dongfang and you are both big liars, Cao Dongfang is really good to you. I don't know what kind of man I will live with in the future."
"The best is to be someone who loves each other, the next is a man who loves you, the next is neither of you loves each other, and the last is a man who you love but he doesn't love you.
After marriage, don’t care too much about your husband’s minor shortcomings. Pay more attention to his strengths. Loving you and taking care of the family is the most important thing.
I've told you everything. Once you understand, it's up to you to decide how to make the decision. "Song Xianxian heard it from Cao Dongfang.
"Xianxian, what you said makes sense, but why is it that when both parties don't love each other, it is better than us loving each other and the other party not loving us!" Qi Tianjiao didn't understand.
"Yeah, Xianxian, why?"
"Xianxian, tell me about it."
Song Xianxian, "I don't understand either. Dongfang will talk to you guys later. Then you can go try on the clothes!"
"All right!"
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"Dongfang, tell them why?"
"This is a statement specifically for individuals. If he loves you, he will treat you well. It has nothing to do with whether you love him or cherish his kindness to you.
As long as he still loves you, he will treat you well!
If both parties don’t love each other, then it doesn’t matter. Just do your own thing and there is no affection or love. No matter what happens, no one will be sad!
In terms of love, you can love someone even if he doesn't love you, but it is not allowed in marriage, as it will make you suffer for the rest of your life.
You are good to him, but your love for him is useless. People will not cherish things that are too easy to get. This is human nature, including all of us in some things.
If a man doesn't love you after marriage, your life will only have two painful choices.
One is that you continue to endure the pain and be nice to the man, but in return you are treated with disdain by that man!
Another one, get a divorce!
You get nothing but the love you want and can only become a divorcee.
Marriage and love are two different things. You have to distinguish them clearly. If you can't, it depends on your luck.
In addition, there is something called responsibility in marriage! Remember, including women.
You may not love your husband, but you must not forget your sense of family responsibility, which is a person's moral code! "Cao Dongfang gave the three girls some popular science.
Qi Tianjiao heard this and said, "Oh, it's so troublesome. From what you said, it seems that if we want to get married, we should look for a man according to marriage standards, and not look for a man based on our own preferences. Is that right?"
"That's a must. When you look for a boyfriend, you only consider his good looks, education and other good qualities.
Once you get married, there will be a lot of things like his income, who does the housework, who changes diapers, who takes care of the children, etc.
There are many things going on, and just looking at the face is not enough.
Of course, if there is a good man like me, he would be a rare species, a national treasure.
Must get it!
Okay, I understand, let’s try on the clothes first! My daughter and son will wake up in another hour and a half! "Cao Dongfang smiled.
Zhou Xiaobai: “…”
Qi Tianjiao: “…”
Mo Jinlan: “…”
"Hahahaha, the husband I'm looking for is really a rare good man, but he's not easy to find. Once I find one, I have to win him over. You three understand!" Song Xianxian laughed.
"Haha, Cao Dongfang, you are so shameless. I really admire you!" Zhou Xiaobai complained.
"Hey, Cao Dongfang, do you have a twin brother? Give me one!"
"Give me one too. Alas, there are not many good men in this world!" Mo Jinlan said helplessly.
"Are there such people in the East? Tell them some!"