Chapter 458 Go with the flow
Sun Shan chatted with Sun Boming for a while, and Sun Dagu also joined in.
Aunt Sun looked at Sun Shan and found that he had no expression. She thought for a while and said, "Shanzi, what do you think about this? Do you like it or not? If you like it, then agree to it. If you don't like it, let's just refuse it and look for another one."
Aunt Sun has made several contacts in the past few days and has inquired about several girls. Some are from the He family, some are from the old lady's family, and some are introduced by old neighbors.
After considering all the conditions, Aunt Sun has selected several for Sun Shan to choose from.
I was just about to discuss with Sun Boming and arrange the time. If we look at two girls a day, after two or three days, there will be five or six girls. Sun Shan will definitely choose one.
Before he could finish his words, He Wenshu's wife came to the door and said that Old Master He San had taken a liking to Sun Shan and wanted him to be his grandson-in-law.
Aunt Sun knew without hesitation that Old Master He San was arranging a marriage for Yun Jie'er.
If it weren't for Sister Yun's own poor conditions, why would Old Master He San be interested in Sun Shan?
The image of Yun Jie'er's plump body emerged in Aunt Sun's mind. She was indeed a bit fat.
Men nowadays like women with slim waists, so Sister Yun can't get married.
Poor Sister Yun, she was very cute and chubby when she was a child.
She has a good personality, good temper and is polite. I heard that she is good at playing the piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, needlework and embroidery. At a very young age, she learned how to manage the household from her mother. She is being trained to be a clan wife.
It’s a pity that I was delayed because of my body shape.
Of course, if it weren't for this reason, Old Master He San would never have looked down upon Sun Shan.
Yun Jie'er has a great-grandfather who is a third-rank official, and two uncles who are officials outside the city. Her father is slightly inferior to her, but she works in the government anyway, so she can be said to be well-known.
A'niang is a daughter of the Chen family, a woman who is highly sought after, and her status is very noble.
It’s a pity that men nowadays are more concerned about beauty and don’t care about inner qualities, so Sister Yun is left alone.
Aunt Sun looked at Sun Shan and thought that marrying Yun Jie'er was a good choice. He should marry a virtuous woman. If such a girl from a noble family did not have any flaws, Sun Shan would not have chosen her.
If a good-looking girl from a noble family said she wanted to marry Sun Shan, Aunt Sun would not dare to accept her.
But getting married is a major event in Sun Shan’s life, and love is priceless.
If Sun Shan is unwilling and does not like her, marrying her would make her an enemy and would make his life uneasy.
Aunt Sun was unwilling to force Sun Shan to marry someone he didn't like.
Aunt Sun continued, "Shanzi, if you like it, then you like it. If you don't like it, then you don't like it. You must say it out loud. Even if Old Master He San asks someone to be a matchmaker, you must follow your heart and don't be embarrassed by your face."
Aunt Sun and Uncle He were in a free love relationship and knew that it was important to find a partner who could support each other through thick and thin. As long as the woman Sun Shan liked had a clean background and poor conditions, Aunt Sun would support her.
Aunt Sun is more open-minded than Sun Boming and Su.
Sun Shan didn't know what to say for a while. If he had found someone he liked, he wouldn't have to think too much and could just tell his family and go to propose marriage.
As for whether it will succeed or not, we’ll talk about it later.
But now he has no goals and can't even find a template he likes in his mind.
Sun Shan has been studying hard these years, living a fat house life and has never thought about getting married.
Sun Bomin and Mr. Su discussed this issue, but Sun Shan still muddled along, thinking that the time would not come so quickly.
Who knew that in the blink of an eye, he would be going on a blind date and getting married. Now he is completely in the dark.
Seeing that Sun Shan didn't say anything, Sun Dagu and Sun Boming also became anxious.
Sun Bomin asked in confusion: "Shanzi, are you willing or not? If you are not willing, please reply as soon as possible so that the He family can continue to look for it. Don't delay their daughter."
After thinking for a while, as if he had thought of something, Sun Bomin's eyes widened and he asked nervously, "Shanzi, do you have a girl in mind?"
Aunt Sun was also stunned, and asked anxiously: "Shanzi, do you really like a girl? Don't be shy, just say it. Let me take a look. Men should get married when they are old enough, there is nothing to be ashamed of."
Seeing that Aunt Sun and Bomin were anxious, Sun Shan told them the truth: "Father, Aunt Sun, I don't have any girl I like, and I don't have any girl I like. I haven't thought about getting married yet. I feel I'm still young."
After hearing this, Sun Dagu and Sun Boming breathed a sigh of relief.
Aunt Sun smiled and said, "Silly boy, you are not young anymore. You are already 19. Many people at your age are already fathers. Aunt knows that you have only been thinking about studying these years and not thinking about other things. It is inevitable that you will not be used to getting married now. These are things that must be experienced in life. You must accept them when they come. Don't be afraid."
Sun Bomin was also a boy and knew Sun Shan's psychological process.
What's more, my kid has been a bit dull since he was young. He only knows how to study and doesn't understand love affairs.
Now that I’m suddenly getting married, I’m naturally feeling uneasy.
Sun Bomin smiled and said, "Shanzi, you will know the benefits of marriage when you get married. Don't think about anything else now, just find a girl to marry. Do you think Yun Jie'er is suitable? Father and aunt think it's okay, but they also respect your opinion. Our family is easy to talk to, and everything revolves around you."
Sun Shan looked at the expectant eyes of Sun Boming and Sun Dagu.
After thinking for a while, he said, "Father, aunt, tell Old Master He San that if Yun Jie'er is willing, then I am willing. I am afraid that Old Master He San made the decision on his own and did not ask Yun Jie'er's opinion. Marriage must be a matter of mutual consent, so that the couple can live a peaceful life in the future."
Aunt Sun and Sun Boming were overjoyed when they heard this.
Aunt Sun said happily, "Shanzi is very thoughtful. It is true that not only you are willing to do this, but also Sister Yun is willing to do it. You are really my good Shanzi, who thinks deeply enough."
When Old Master He San came to propose marriage, Aunt Sun was shocked at first, but then she understood.
Ever since Sister Yun came of age, the marriage proposal has been unsuccessful. Old Master He San has no other choice but to look for someone lower down.
Aunt Sun was unhappy at first, as if she had no choice but to choose Shanzi, who was so outstanding.
But Jing'er's grandfather, grandmother, and uncle are right. Marrying Yun Jie'er will be of great benefit to Sun Shan.
There are many talented people in this world, but to be talented and promising requires the right time, place and people.
Aunt Sun believed in Sun Shan's talent, but she couldn't guarantee that Sun Shan would have a bright future.
Shanzi looks dull at first glance, not a smart guy. Born into a farming family, his family definitely cannot provide any help.
It would be different if you could marry someone capable, and your future life would be much easier.
We should be realistic in life. If we are not realistic, we will often not live a good life.
After receiving Sun Shan's opinion, Sun Dagu and Sun Boming immediately asked Baoger's grandmother to pass on the message.
In less than two hours, Baoger's grandmother came over and said that Yunjie was willing.
Sun Shan was stunned. This speed was too fast. And was Sister Yun really willing?
Sun Shan felt mixed emotions for a moment, neither sad nor happy, as if he had no desires or requests.
Sun Shan didn't know why he said those words to Sun Dagu and Sun Boming, he just wanted to say that at that time.
He was like a headless fly, bumping around here and there, not knowing where to go.
Just like in his heart, he knew that he wanted to get married and have children, but he had no idea who to marry.
Sun Shan sighed and looked at the happy Aunt Sun and Sun Boming.
Should he just go with the flow and be happy at this moment?