Chapter 486 Stubbornness Has Been Seen
A hint of hesitation flashed in Liang Lu's eyes. She knew that what Chen Yang said was true, but she still didn't know what to do.
"Chen Yang, then what do you think I should do?" Liang Lu asked helplessly.
Chen Yang thought for a moment and said, "I think you can communicate well and understand each other's ideas. Maybe you can find a compromise, such as giving the child a double surname, or using other methods to pass on the surnames of your two families."
Liang Lu smiled bitterly after hearing what Chen Yang said. "Chen Yang, you don't know that Tong Wei and I have discussed the issue of double surnames before, and we both think it's not a good idea. Once we use double surnames, when the children grow up and ask whether it's Qi or Liang, it will confuse the children and make our family relationships more complicated."
Chen Yang frowned slightly. She understood Liang Lu's concerns, but she also felt that Liang Lu was a little too stubborn. "Liang Lu, you can't think like that. The child has the blood of both of you. No matter what his surname is, he is your child. Besides, in this era, surnames are not that important. What's important is to give the child a warm and happy family."
Liang Lu sighed and said, "I know what you said makes sense, but I just can't get over it. I think the child's surname represents the family heritage, and I don't want my family heritage to be cut off in my generation."
Chen Yang held Liang Lu's hand and said, "Liang Lu, I understand your thoughts, but you also have to consider Qi Tongwei's feelings. As the child's father, he certainly hopes that the child can inherit his surname. If you continue to be deadlocked like this, the conflict will only deepen, which will not be good for the child's growth."
Liang Lu was silent. She knew what Chen Yang said was true, but she still didn't know how to make a decision. She didn't want to give up her family's inheritance, but she didn't want to continue arguing with Qi Tongwei.
Chen Yang looked at Liang Lu's tangled expression and felt helpless. She thought for a moment and said, "Liang Lu, how about this? You can give the child a name and don't consider the surname issue for now. When the child grows up, let him choose his own surname. This can avoid the current conflicts between you and give the child more autonomy."
Liang Lu's eyes lit up, and she thought Chen Yang's suggestion was a good one. "Chen Yang, your idea is good. But will Tong Wei agree?"
Chen Yang smiled and said, "You can have a good communication with Qi Tongwei. I believe he will understand you. After all, you are all doing this for the good of the child."
Liang Lu's eyes flashed with complex emotions, and the complaints in her heart surged like a tide. She felt that Qi Tongwei was indeed very immature in this matter. A grown man actually quarreled with a woman like her for so long over the issue of the child's surname, and there was no result yet.
"Qi Tongwei, Qi Tongwei, why are you so ignorant?" Liang Lu complained in her heart, "We have been married for so many years and have been through so many ups and downs, why can't you give in on this issue? You have to fight me to the death."
Liang Lu recalled their past, and those beautiful memories formed a sharp contrast with the current quarrels. She remembered that when they first got together, Qi Tongwei was so gentle and considerate to her, and always went along with her in everything. But now, their relationship has become so tense because of the issue of a child's surname.
"Is our relationship so fragile? That we can't even bear the burden of a child's surname?" The more Liang Lu thought about it, the sadder she felt, and tears welled up in her eyes unconsciously.
She began to doubt whether their relationship was still as deep as before, and whether it could withstand more tests. She even felt that her position in Qi Tongwei's heart was not as good as before, otherwise why would he ignore her feelings and insist on his own ideas?
Liang Lu's heart was filled with helplessness and sadness. She didn't know how to face Qi Tongwei, nor how to solve this problem. She felt that she was stuck in a dead end and couldn't get out no matter how hard she tried.
"Maybe Chen Yang's suggestion is right. We should give the child a name first and not consider the surname. When the child grows up, let him choose his own surname." Liang Lu thought, "But will Qi Tongwei really agree? He is so stubborn, will he think I am giving in?"
Liang Lu's heart was full of contradictions. She hoped to solve this problem as soon as possible and give her child a stable home, but she was also worried that Qi Tongwei would misunderstand her intentions. She didn't know how to choose, so she could only pray silently in her heart, hoping that Qi Tongwei would understand her good intentions.
At the same time, Liang Lu also began to reflect on her own behavior. She realized that she was a little too stubborn on this issue and did not fully consider Qi Tongwei's feelings. She felt that she should handle this issue more rationally instead of insisting on her own ideas.
"Maybe I should take the initiative to talk to Qi Tongwei, tell him my thoughts and concerns, and see if we can find a better solution." Liang Lu thought, "After all, we are husband and wife, and we should work together for this family."
Chen Yang was indeed very pleased after hearing Liang Lu's words. She looked at Liang Lu with admiration in her eyes.
"Liang Lu, it's great that you think this way. I knew you would figure it out." Chen Yang said with a smile.
Liang Lu lowered her head slightly, a hint of shyness on her face. "Chen Yang, thank you. If you hadn't been there to persuade me, I might still be stuck in my stubbornness."
Chen Yang shook his head slightly and said, "This is all your own awareness. I just expressed some of my opinions, but the final decision is still yours to make."
Liang Lu sighed with emotion and said, "Yes, I understand now that we can't always only consider our own ideas, but also think more about each other. After all, we are husband and wife, and we have to work together for this family."
Chen Yang nodded and said, "That's right. Husbands and wives should understand and support each other. Now that you have figured it out, I believe you can find a better solution after you have a good talk with Qi Tongwei."
Liang Lu's eyes were full of expectation. She decided to find a chance to communicate with Qi Tongwei after he came back. At this time, Chen Yang continued to help Liang Lu take care of the child. They took care of this little life together, feeling the warmth and responsibility.
However, just as they were looking forward to a better life in the future, Qi Tongwei encountered great danger.