Chapter 499 What spirit?

Chapter 499 What spirit?

Chapter 499 What spirit?
Bain Bion wanted to buy Mr. Toad as soon as possible, but he encountered a complicated patient.

The patient found out that his father was not his biological father... No, he was not his father's biological father. Based on clues, he found out that his mother had an affair with someone and his biological father. But he didn't want his family to break up. His father was really nice to him, and he didn't want to hide it from his father. Under the crazy struggle, the child became depressed.

"Listen to me, boy (16 years old), why do you think you shouldn't live in this world?" Bane's heart was already sounding the alarm, but his face remained calm.

"If it weren't for me, my mother's affair could still be saved," he said. "If it weren't for me, my father wouldn't have been deceived for 16 years."

It is said that child psychology is a separate discipline because incorrect guidance during the stage of forming three views can lead to two extreme consequences.

First of all, everything is the world's fault, and it's not the kind of chuunibyou. Secondly, all the faults are attributed to oneself, and the child in front of him is obviously the latter.

I have to work overtime today...

On the first day of its release, Mr. Toad Goes to the Psychologist lived up to the support of the relevant departments of Da Ying, with sales of 9 copies on the first day. This was the best result in 2020, even exceeding the first-day sales of copies of the Weymouth Series.

[Mr. Gu Lu's love for Da Ying is all in the book.]
Kane, the Lord of Cthulhu (Gu Lu certified), promoted it on his Twitter that afternoon. Actually, he hadn't read it at all, and the book was still on its way from Amazon Express.

The one who would actually buy the book first was the anti-fan Phillips, a reporter for The Times. He was also Sean's good friend and the pioneer of the Internet boycott of Gu Lu. He didn't have any bad intentions and simply thought France was an idiot.

They actually promoted "Who Moved My Cheese?" as a way to save the economic downturn, which simply took the people's IQ for granted. When Phillips despised the IQ of the French, he found that his own country was also doing the same thing, and the Education Committee said something like "a book to save young people." As a citizen of the British Empire, Phillips did not need Chinese writers to do this or that!
Haha! What is China?

"What gift should I give to little Honey?" Phillips passed by a bookstore and bought two copies of Mr. Toad. Why two? He also bought one for his own child.

Came to a friend's house.

He and Sean were college classmates, but their careers were very different after graduation. Phillips relied on his hard work and a little background to get into the most prestigious newspaper in the country. As for Sean, he became a hardworking programmer.

Arriving at Sean's house, the former was preparing dinner for the day. It is worth mentioning that Sean's wife, Honey's mother, is very busy and sometimes she is not at home for half a month.

"A gift from Honey," Phillips held out a book.

"Thank you, Uncle Phillips," Honey thanked him politely, but he became a little nervous when the other party continued chatting for a few more words.

Because little Honey remembered that once an aunt asked him about his birthday, but he forgot it for a moment and was scolded by his father. As a direct result, whenever an adult asked him about his birthday, little Honey would still subconsciously get nervous, even if his father Sean was not there at the time.

"Dad, let me help you," even though this uncle came often, little Honey was nervous to be alone with him, so he ran into the kitchen.

Phillips was sitting on the sofa watching TV. There was a football game he was interested in today.

As a result, the team he supported played so badly that it was unbearable to watch. He gave the remaining book to Mr. Toad.

Anyway, I have to criticize the ruling party and Gu Lu at the same time. You can read it when you are bored.

What kind of Mr. Toad is this? After reading the introduction, Phillips was surprised to find that the whole story was based on "The Wind in the Willows".

How can we describe the fairy tale The Wind in the Willows? In 2016, it was still in the top of the best-selling books on the Internet. It was written more than years ago and has been adapted into cartoons, stage plays, audio broadcasts, etc. If we have to say it, the recognition of The Wind in the Willows among Internet voters is equivalent to the recognition of Journey to the West among the Chinese people.

Therefore, Phillips instantly felt a sense of familiarity.

At the same time, you should also understand why the writer has to use the background of a fairy tale to popularize psychology. This kind of animal anthropomorphism is too easy to be original.

Are you willing to read just popular science psychology?

If we use Sun Wukong, Zhu Bajie, and popularize psychology, wouldn’t the reading interest be much higher? The same principle applies.

Phillips' interest in reading was aroused. "Gu Lu is quite smart. The story of The Wind in the Willows was told to me by my mother when I was a child."

At first, Phillips was smiling, but later his expression gradually became serious.

Because he felt that Gu Lu seemed to be serious.

Through the words of Mr. Canglu, it is proposed that there are four types of emotions that children will encounter: "You are good, I am not good", "I am good, you are not good", "I am not good, you are not good either", and "I am good, you are good too".

As a journalist, Phillips doesn't know much about psychology, but he does know about human nature. Although he doesn't agree that an adult's personality is entirely derived from childhood experiences, it is true that in childhood, if you use a certain emotion to deal with things around you for a long time, it will be formed. The first kind is that when facing parents and people around you, you always think that it's okay if you are good, and it's okay if I am not good. When you grow up, you will indeed feel inferior and sensitive.

Phillips thought of his immediate boss and felt that the emotional coordinate he had chosen when he was a child should be the second one. He was very easy to get angry and was very picky about his reporters.

Those who choose the third option for a long time in their childhood coordinates are, as Bain said at the beginning, either extremely inferior or extremely arrogant, and are prone to extreme behavior.

"The fourth emotional coordinate, how difficult it is." Phillips sighed, saying that only with the fourth emotional coordinate can children who grow up be emotionally stable and appreciate others.

"Gu Lu, he seems to be serious about saving the young people of London..." Phillips was silent. He had read about half of the 80,000 words when his good friends Sean and Little Honey came out of the kitchen.

Honey brought out corn chips, while Sean brought out pizza, fried chicken, and nuts. Phillips could see clearly that the pizza was a semi-finished product, bought from Sainsbury's supermarket at the corner of the street.

The two friends drank some beer and chatted about some topics. Little Honey drank juice because he was lactose intolerant, so he couldn't drink milk.

When talking about it, Sean's previous ideal was to become a journalist.

"Obviously, Honey needs care, so I'm going to choose a job close to home," Sean said.

The hand holding the juice trembled, and little Honey lowered his head.

If Phillips had been so attentive before, to be precise, he had come to his friend's house to drink and chat many times without paying any attention to the child.

But looking at Mr. Toad, he noticed the child.

"Honey, we're going to have boxing training tomorrow, you must train hard," Sean said.

"I will definitely be serious and make more friends." Little Honey said immediately.

Hearing this, Sean happily took a sip of beer, and seeing this, little Honey also became happy.

The coordinates are good for you, am I not good? Phillips often comes to the house, and he probably knows that little Honey's hobbies are definitely not boxing, but in order to make his father happy, he is happy to do things even if he doesn't like them...

"Fortunately, I didn't let Benny learn boxing. I chose painting for him..." Phillips' heart suddenly stagnated. Does his child Benny really like painting? He is not sure. Because it seems that he is the one who likes painting.

Being a journalist is his lifelong pursuit, but painting is just his hobby. He has a talent for painting since he was a child, so he feels that his child Benny will inherit his talent.

As a father, Phillips has never thought about things from his child's perspective.

Look at little Honey now, a living example, at such a young age, he already has the rudiments of "inferiority" and "submissiveness". "An Eastern writer thousands of miles away, specially wrote such a work for the children of Daying, what kind of spirit is this?" Phillips's impression of Gu Lu was a 180-degree reversal.

"Phillips?" Sean shouted twice, but there was no response from the other party.

Recalled back by the shouting, Phillips sighed, "Mr. Gu Lu is the writer who truly has the world in mind. The ruling party has done a good thing."

“???” Sean looked at the other person in confusion. He had a feeling that the other person was possessed by a ghost, even though they had criticized each other before.

"Sean, you should take a look at the book I gave to Honey," Phillips said.

It may be a bit of an exaggeration to say that it has been conquered, but the book On Earth is hailed as a national treasure and tops the list of psychology books because it is really suitable for Europe.

Everyone who has seen it says it’s good.

"The Little Prince" is a fairy tale written for adults, and "Mr. Toad Goes to See a Psychologist" is actually a popular science work written for adults.

After reading the book, most people will have some insights.

Whether you have children or not.

Whether you have psychological reserves or not.

Next, I will talk about readers who have psychological training.

"I apologize, I apologize to Mr. Gu Lu, Mr. Toad is a good book, thank you sir."

"God bless you. No wonder I still get panicked when my colleagues and friends speak loudly even though I'm in my thirties. So that's why. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not a coward."

"I remember the psychologist at the hospital next to my home was charged 60 pounds an hour. This book really helped us solve a lot of problems. I am very grateful to Mr. Gu Lu."

"I solemnly apologize for my previous comments on the Internet. Gu Lu's love for Da Ying is real, and his respect for Da Ying is far beyond what a Weymouth series can represent. According to data from the British Statistics Bureau, the suicide rate in Da Ying has been increasing every year since 2000, and we need to pay attention to mental health. Mr. Gu Lu is a person who truly wants to save Da Ying."

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Oops Oops!

Bane's face changed drastically. He saw the comments on "Mr. Toad Goes to a Psychologist" on the Internet and felt that many of his compatriots had been "bewitched".

He had to finish writing it quickly and correct the mistakes in the book. The later he was, the more people would believe it. With this in mind, Bane did not even start the car, let alone drive it out of the garage. He put down his phone and sat in the driver's seat, looking at Mr. Toad.

First of all, the good thing about Mr. Toad is that the book does not exaggerate the role of psychologists. It took Mr. Toad ten consultations to figure out his problem.

It was after he figured it out that Mr. Toad's condition improved and he decided to reconcile with himself.

That’s right, psychologists can’t eliminate the knot in the heart. A good psychologist can help the patient find out what the knot is and understand why it exists. The key factor in treatment is the patient himself.

"Ok?"

“The process is correct.”

“Guide correctly.”

“Psychological counseling is correct.”

"This book...is it all correct?"

It is hard to believe that a layman in psychology can write such a neat popular science work on psychology.

"This..." Bain silently searched Gu Lu's resume on the Internet. According to Gu Lu's fame, Wikipedia already has all his information.

There is clearly no information on psychology.

and many more!

"In 2013, Gu Lu visited Professor Watson, a professor in the Department of Psychology at Cambridge University." Bain found a connection between Gu Lu and psychology.

Professor Watson? Could it be that Gu Lu went to ask for advice? In the same profession, there are enemies. Bain and Watson often fight in public, and Bain often attacks Watson for not doing his job properly.

But Bain still has no doubt about Watson's professional ability.

"Damn it, this time Watson... won." Bane said this after a long while.

So why did Gu Lu come to London to meet Watson for the second time a few years ago? Because Watson wrote a book called "Sherlock Holmes is an Antisocial Personality". Because it quoted many passages from Mr. Holmes, he invited Gu Lu to come. First, he wanted authorization, and second, he wanted to give Gu Lu a book.

This is a misunderstanding.

On the other hand, Da Ying Gu Lu's new work is taking off, but Gu Lu in China can hardly even walk, let alone take off.

"Huahua, you have to be obedient and let go of my legs." Gu Lu was about to leave, but Huahua held his thighs tightly.

Seriously speaking, Huahua didn't use much force, and Gu Lu could have pulled it out with a little force, but how could she be willing to do that!

"Expert Gu, Huahua likes you." Research assistant Xiaoxi didn't say the second half of the sentence, because every time Gu Lu came, he would play with Huahua and feed her delicious food.

Of course, in this temporary research base, there is no shortage of food funds. It is mainly for the health of the pandas, and they cannot eat too much of many things. However, Gu Lu is an "exception".

Don't be fooled by Huahua's short legs, but she is very smart.

"You, ah!" Who can resist a panda's coquetry? Most people can't even resist a cat's coquetry. Gu Lu temporarily put down what he was doing and accompanied the national treasure.

Guru King is currently attending Professor Tong's course "The History of the Development of Scar Literature". Is Yu Hua's "To Live" scar literature? Of course not, it can only be said that it is slightly related to the subject matter. He is a representative of the avant-garde. However, if Guru King wants to collect information, participating in this Kecheng preparatory project is very suitable.

Gu Lu only learned about the name of Scar Literature after participating in the project. It turns out that Scar Literature comes from the short story Scar by the writer Lu Xinhua. Lu Xinhua was a college student at the time and became famous after publishing this short story. Even if this writer has no more works worth showing off, his name will be mentioned when talking about Scar Literature.

Back to the point, Gu Lu participated in the compilation of the book "The History of the Development of Scar Literature". Of course, he mainly played a role in verification, because in the 20s and 80s, many books did not have an exact publication time, and Guru King had a lot of connections in the domestic publishing industry. He was able to save Professor Tong a lot of time.

(End of this chapter)