Chapter 723 Very different
Zhuang Wei answered seriously.
"In my humble opinion, your husband lied, but it was a white lie."
Luo Yu didn't understand what was going on.
“How come you see?”
Zhuang Wei has a unique insight into the analysis of this matter.
"At first, he said he didn't like to lie, or he was telling the truth. Lying and covering up lies make people tired. I think no one in the world likes to lie."
"On the second day after marriage, he said something hurtful without meaning to. It was not intentional and does not mean that he has changed his mind and is heartless."
"However, it was an unintentional mistake, but you misinterpreted it."
"He had no choice but to lie to gain your peace of mind."
Luo Yu was confused by what she heard.
"He subconsciously said hurtful words to others. His love must have changed. How could it be an unintentional mistake?"
Zhuang Wei gave a detailed analysis and discussion.
“This is the biggest misinterpretation.”
"Nothing is perfect, and the same is true for love."
"It is impossible for him to be caring and considerate in every word he writes. Because, the essence of human beings is selfishness."
"Let me give you an example from my own real experience."
"When I was a kid, there were rumors all over the village that there was a man who was mentally ill and killed anyone he saw without mercy."
"One day, my sister and I were playing in the backyard. The man suddenly appeared and smiled at us, which made him look even more eerie."
"I was so scared that I ran away. When I ran out of the backyard, I realized that I had left my sister there."
"Before the incident, I always thought that if I encountered danger, I would definitely stand up and protect my family. I never thought that I would leave my sister behind and run away without thinking."
"Fortunately, the rumor was false. The man was not a bad person, and my sister is safe and sound."
"But, to this day, I still feel guilty and blame myself for not being worthy of being her eldest brother."
"After experiencing this firsthand, I know that I made the mistake subconsciously and unintentionally."
"My sister and I are biological siblings from the same father and mother, and we grew up together. From your perspective, does that mean I am also heartless and don't care about her at all?"
Luo Yu replied.
"As a family, we love and care for each other."
Zhuang Wei’s words are profound.
"If this is the case for siblings, let alone a husband and wife who are not related by blood."
"You have never experienced such things, so you misunderstood your husband's feelings. Your husband, probably has a simple temperament and is not good at speaking, so he can't explain why he hurt the person he loves with his bad words."
"It's helpless that a white lie is told."
Luo Yushen’s heart was melted and she felt enlightened.
"Hearing what you said, it is indeed me who is very ignorant."
Zhuang Wei has a thorough understanding of the matter.
"Conflicts are inevitable when a couple lives together. If they want to respect each other, both sides must work together. Neither side can be lacking."
"You have your ignorance of the ways of the world, and your husband has his ignorance of human nature."
"I don't know him, so I have no way of guiding him in his words and deeds; I can only teach you to correct your mistakes and try your best to become a good wife."
Her heart knot was suddenly cleared and Luo Yu smiled happily.
"Well, I'll correct it."
"I have benefited a lot from your words. Thank you for your guidance, Young Master Jiang."
"I still have some questions. If Jiang Shaolang finds it annoying, you can refuse to answer them."
Zhuang Wei is happy and contented, and works tirelessly.
"It's not annoying."
"I am happy to share my heart with you."
"Go ahead."
Luo Yu spoke in torrents.
"One time, I found his letters..."
Luo Yu described almost all the problems she encountered after marriage, whether with her husband, mother-in-law, or brother-in-law.
Zhuang Wei patiently explained the problem and told her how to solve it.
Luo Yu listened attentively and borrowed his pen and paper to write down every word.
During the conversation, she gradually discovered that he was unconventional and completely different from the men she had met before.
Other men, hearing her complain about family matters, would have evil intentions, thinking that there was an opportunity, so they wanted to take advantage of it, win her heart and seek their own benefits.
For example, she asked, what kind of lies does the husband tell?
They will definitely answer that it is malicious.
To them, her husband or her beloved was like a destined enemy, full of malice even though they did not know each other.
She doesn't understand, where does the malice come from?
If it were her, she wouldn't have any ill intentions.
In her opinion, whether it is love, family, or friendship, loving someone and loving everyone in them is the most basic belief in expressing true feelings.
Unless the person she loves does something hurtful, such as hitting her for no reason, she will feel a little hostile. Otherwise, there is no need to make an enemy.
In her opinion, her husband's ex-girlfriends should be respected and not be prejudiced. If she gets along with them, she should treat them like ordinary people. They can be strangers, friends, or family members.
For example, she asked how to solve the problem.
The men all said the same thing: "It's not your fault for arguing and quarreling, you don't have to change. He treats you like this, it's obvious that he doesn't love you."
I don't know where they learned this. They firmly believe that this is the correct answer. Women love to hear this kind of words.
She couldn't make a final judgment about the other women, and anyway, she didn't like to hear it.
This reply is perfunctory and evasive, and there is no sincerity at all.
Jiang Shaolang's attitude is completely different.
He never hesitated to point out her mistakes, even if it might make her unhappy and cause the two good friends to part ways, he would do his best to guide her to correct them.
He didn't care about his own feelings, he just wanted her problems to be solved and her life to be happy.
This shows that he is sincere in making friends and has no evil intentions.
Luo Yu was filled with mixed feelings.
Why is it so hard to find someone like him who agrees with me, as if he only appears once in a thousand years?
Is it true, as they say, that people like us are unique and different?
Perhaps, the idea I advocate is really strange.
Maybe, I am just a weirdo.
Therefore, this world is long and it is hard to find a true friend.
Before you know it, night falls.
Luo Yu was enjoying it so much that she couldn't stop eating.
"I have one more thing..."
Zhuang Wei pointed at the sky outside and interrupted her words in time.
"There is a long way to go. We can slowly solve the problem. There is no rush."
"Look, it's getting late."
"We are good friends, and we should pay attention to the difference between men and women. We can't stay in the same room at night."
"Go back, we'll see you tomorrow."
Luo Yu's reluctance to leave is beyond words.
"I'm a little reluctant to leave."
Zhuang Wei gave a stern warning.
"Don't say such things at night."
Luo Yu was puzzled.
"Why can't I tell you?"
"Will my words lead you to have wild thoughts?"
Zhuang Wei is cold-hearted and upright.
"I won't think too much, but you just can't say it."
"You must remember that we are friends and we should have clear boundaries."
"You don't want to transfer your feelings, and I don't want to fall in love with someone else. We should live in peace and supervise each other, and we must not go beyond the line."
"Okay?"
His tone of voice was just right, and Luo Yu readily agreed.
"okay."
Zhuang Wei is neither arrogant nor boastful.
"Ms. Song, please go slowly."
Luo Yu left her seat and said goodbye.
"Farewell."
Yan Wu and his servants hid in the dark, waiting for the right opportunity.
Unexpectedly, these two people opened the door, kept their distance, and did not behave in a disorderly manner at all.
Yan Wu was depressed and returned to Feiyangju to report the situation.
Yun Yicha suggested that he go to Danshanju and asked her where she would go after the live broadcast.
After all, she would definitely lie to a man when meeting him alone. At this time, we only need to ask her to write a letter of guarantee and sign her name, and it can be kept as evidence.