Chapter 735 It’s Not Their Fault

Chapter 735 It’s Not Their Fault

When Gao Yang heard Lin Ruochu mention Su Xing, he said, "She is very strong. She practices martial arts, and her physical fitness is unmatched by ordinary people."

However, Gao Yang felt that many people who had practiced martial arts for many years might not be as strong as Su Xing.

Lin Ruochu was surprised and said, "She actually learned martial arts? No wonder... But, I really can't tell..."

No wonder Su Xing could walk so fast while holding her, and no wonder the master acted as if it was a matter of course and just jogged behind her.

She recalled Su Xing's unforgettable appearance for the first time, and felt that it was a little unreal. She was obviously so delicate...

Gao Yang said: "Don't be fooled by her thin figure. In fact, she is full of muscles and very strong. She is also very skilled. During the military training, when she fought against the boys, the boys couldn't beat her. She also fought back and forth with the instructors."

"So... is she popular?"

"Of course. She has a good personality, is honest, and often helps others. She is also smart and has always been ranked first in her major. Teachers and classmates all like her very much."

"She is so outstanding and has high fighting ability. Are there any boys who dare to pursue her?"

Gao Yang laughed, "Why do you have to be obsessed with whether there are boys chasing after you? A person works hard and makes himself outstanding, just to attract the opposite sex? Isn't it to realize his own value? And a boy who feels inferior in front of her, do you think he is qualified to stand by her side?"

Lin Ruochu was stunned.

Gao Yang went on to say, "A man who is good enough and strong enough inside will not be afraid of the girl he likes becoming more and more outstanding, and will not seek a sense of superiority in front of his partner. Hey, let me tell you, Su Xing is the first person in our dormitory to be single. She and her boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and their relationship is very solid. They have also met each other's parents. When her boyfriend sees her, his eyes light up and his face is full of pride. He doesn't think that his girlfriend is too good and he has lost his dignity as a man."

Lin Ruochu listened blankly, with a fascinated expression.

Gao Yang added: "Boys are taught from childhood to adulthood: study hard, climb hard, make money hard, and work hard for their careers. They work hard to stand high enough and live a better life in the future. Who would tell them that all your efforts are for more women? They will only hear this: 'When you have money and status, you can have any kind of woman you want?' So only girls work hard to marry a good man?"

Lin Ruochu murmured, "Isn't it good to get married?"

People around her have always told her: The ultimate destination of a woman is to get married, and marrying a good man is a woman's second reincarnation...

Gao Yang said: "I'm not saying it's bad to get married. If you meet a man who shares the same values ​​as you, is responsible, is a good match for you, and you like each other, of course you can get married and have children. This does not conflict with your own hard work and excellence. I just think that no matter whether you are a man or a woman, everyone should strengthen themselves for themselves, not for anyone else."

Lin Ruochu thought of Su Xing again, and sighed softly, "A girl like your roommate Su Xing, who is smart, honest, pretty, has a good figure, is popular, and knows martial arts, is what a girl should be like, right?"

She was a little envious, but she couldn't be such a girl, she couldn't do it...

Gao Yang was somewhat helpless. "Why are you so stubborn again? Are you comparing yourself to her? She is a pervert. How many people are like her in this world? Su Xing is the only one! What did I tell you yesterday? There is no such thing as should or shouldn't. We girls can be anything, whether we are good at studying or average at studying; whether we are beautiful or ordinary; whether we are powerful or weak; whether we are elite executives or housewives. As long as it is our choice and we feel comfortable, we can be anything and live any kind of life we ​​want!"

"But... sometimes, some people's lives are not what they want to choose. Is it others who make them choose, or is it that they have to choose?"

Gao Yang said seriously, "What you said is indeed the dilemma faced by many people. Many people do not have the right to choose their own lives. They are pushed onto a thorny road by countless invisible hands. They have to move forward even with blood on their feet. It is not their fault. Sometimes we may feel sorry for their misfortune and be angry at their lack of struggle, but we are not in their situation. We have no right to blame or belittle them. We cannot change the fate of others. We can only hope that everyone can find the positive side in the predicament and believe that any situation may have a turnaround. A positive attitude can make us more powerful to deal with difficulties. Let's encourage each other."

Lin Ruochu seemed to be thinking about something.

The patient in the next bed was a lady in her fifties. She had been listening to the conversation between Gao Yang and Lin Ruochu.

At this time, I couldn't help but interrupt and said, "Yes, there is no obstacle in this world that cannot be overcome. When I was young, I met my husband for a few times on a blind date and got married. There were a lot of problems after marriage. My parents-in-law made things difficult, my sister-in-law instigated me, and my husband didn't support me. My life was so chaotic. I once thought about jumping into the well with my children and putting an end to it. Later, I figured it out. For the sake of the children, I just had to deal with it. Fortunately, my son and daughter are doing well. They study and work well, and their annual salary is hundreds of thousands. My daughter is in Beijing and my son is in Pengcheng. The brother and sister said that if their father is fine, they will live like this. If he still supports their grandmother's family and cheats us, let me divorce their father! In fact, the two children have asked us to divorce several times, but the old man doesn't agree, and it's troublesome to sue, but if he provokes me again, I would rather trouble him for two years and have a good talk with him."

The aunt is full of pride in having her children's support.

Gao Yang smiled and said, "Aunt, your children are filial, and your blessings are yet to come."

Lin Ruochu also smiled, "Auntie, you are very happy now."

Auntie smiled and said, "Yes, even though I am old, I feel that good days are just beginning. I have hope."

As they were chatting, the door of the ward opened.

Lin Ruochu's nurse and the daughter of the aunt in the next bed walked in together.

The nurse said, "There were a lot of people waiting to get hot water. They lined up and came back late."

Lin Ruochu said: "It doesn't matter."

The nurse saw Gao Yang and greeted him with a smile, "Student Gao is here."

Gao Yang said: "Thank you for your hard work, Auntie."

"It should."

Gao Yang stayed with Lin Ruochu for a while.

Lin Ruochu saw that it was already past eight o'clock, so he said to Gao Yang: "Master, it's getting late, you should go back to school. Tomorrow is Monday, and you have classes, so you don't need to come."

Gao Yang said, "Then I'll go back first. If you have anything, call me. I'll come to see you after class tomorrow."

"Okay... Thank you, Master."

"Hey! You've said thank you so many times that my ears are numb from hearing it. Please say less next time."

"it is good……"